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Qu LishangQu Li said: Don't be disrespectful, think about it, and settle down. Peace. Ao can't be long, you can't follow your desires, you can't be satisfied, and you can't be happy. The sage respects it, fears it and loves it; Love and know its evil, hate and know its good. Accumulate and disperse, and be safe and can move. There is no need to get wealth, and there is no need to avoid difficulties. There is no need to win, and there is no need to score more. There is no doubt about it, and there is no doubt about it. Ruofu, sit like a corpse, stand like a qi. Etiquette is appropriate, so that it is customary. The husband and the courtesy are so close to each other, the suspicion is decided, the same is not different, and the right and wrong are also clear.
Etiquette, don't talk about people, don't quit. Etiquette, no overtime, no insult, not good. Self-cultivation and practice are called good deeds. Practicing words and sayings, the quality of etiquette is also. Etiquette is taken from people, and people are not smelled. Etiquette comes to learn, not to teach. Moral benevolence and righteousness, incivility is not accomplished; Teach righteousness and vulgarity, and be indecent and indecent; Divide disputes and litigate, and do not decide indecencies; Fathers and sons and brothers are indecent and indecisive; eunuch teacher, indecent and indeforming; The Ban Dynasty governs the army, and the officials do the law, and it is not good to be indecent and majestic. Pray for shrines and sacrifices, offer to ghosts and gods, indecent and insincere. It is a gentleman who is respectful and austere, and retreats to be courteous. The parrot can speak, and it does not leave the bird; Orangutans can speak, and they are inseparable from beasts. Today's people are rude, although they can speak, but they are not also the hearts of beasts? The husband is rude to the beast, so the father and son get together. Therefore, the saints made it to teach people as a courtesy, so that people can be polite, and know that they are different from beasts. Too virtuous, followed by retribution. Courtesy is still exchanged, and it is not rude to come and go, and it is not rude to come and go. If people are polite, they are safe, and if they are rude, they are dangerous. Therefore, it is said: "Those who are courteous must not fail to learn." The husband is inferior and respectful. Although the peddler must be respected, and the situation is rich? If you are rich and know good gifts, you are not arrogant or lewd; If you are poor and know good gifts, you will not be intimidated.
Ten years of life is young, learning. Twenty is weak, crown. Thirty years strong, there is a room. Forty is strong, and Shi. Fifty said Ai, serving the government. Sixty years old, commanded. Seventy years old, and passed on. Eighty-ninety-ninety. Seven years of mourning, mourning and mourning, although guilty, no punishment will be added. A hundred years of period, Yi. The doctor died at seventy. and if they do not give thanks, they shall be given rods and shall be served to the woman. Suitable for the Quartet, take the car. He calls himself an old man, and he is called a name in his country; If you ask questions about the country, you will be told about its system. If you seek it from the elderly, you must use a few rods to follow it. The elder asked, not relenting, but also rude.
Whoever is the gift of the Son of Man, warm in winter and clear in summer, calm and morning provincial, in the ugly and indisputable. The husband is the son of man, and the three gifts are not as good as the chariot and the horse. The party of Luxiang Township in Guzhou called it filial piety, brothers and relatives called it Ciye, wingmen and friends called their brothers, deacons called their benevolence, and Jiaoyou called their letters. Seeing the father's persistence, he does not dare to advance, and he does not dare to retreat; Don't ask, don't dare to be right. This filial son trip also. The husband is the son of man, he must tell when he goes out, he must face him, he must have a constant travel, he must have a karma when he is accustomed, and he is not called old when he is always talking. If you are older, you will be a father, if you are ten years old, you will be a brother, and if you are five years old, you will be a shoulder. If there are five people in a group, the elders will be seated differently. He who is the son of man does not live in the main mystery, does not sit in the middle seat, does not walk in the middle way, and does not stand in the middle door. Food is not a mallet, and sacrifice is not a corpse. Hear silently, see invisible. Don't ascend, don't go deep. Don't laugh, don't laugh. The filial son does not accept the darkness, does not go to danger, and is afraid of humiliating his relatives. Parents are saved, and friends are not allowed to die. No private property. He who is the son of man is the one whose parents are saved, and the crown and garment are not vegan. The solitary son is the room, and the crown is not pure. The young son often ignores it. The boy is not clothed. Stand up and don't listen. When the elder carries him, he will serve the hand of the elder with both hands. If the sword is negative, it will cover its mouth.
From Mr. Yu, do not cross the road and talk to others. Mr. Yu Dao, tending to advance, is standing upright. The gentleman is right; If you don't talk to it, you tend to retreat. From the elders to the hills, it will be seen by the elders of the village. Don't point to the city, don't call to the city. Will be suitable for the sake of retention, seek not to be solid. will go to the church, and the voice will be raised. There are two outdoors, and if you hear it, you will enter, and if you don't hear it, you will not enter. Will enter the house, depending on the must. Enter the house and serve, and do not look back; Households are opened, and households are closed; If there is a latecomer, do not succeed. Don't practice, don't hesitate, pick your clothes and tend to the corner. Be cautious. The doctor enters and exits the king's gate, from the right of 𫔶, and does not practice the threshold.
Whoever enters with a guest, each door is given to the guest. As for the guest at the dormitory door, the host invites him to sit down and then goes out to welcome the guest. The guest is stubborn, and the host enters the guest. The host enters to the right, and the guest enters to the left. The host is on the east step, and the guest is on the west step. If the guest is demoted, he will be at the level of the master. The host resigned, and then returned to the west steps. The host and the guest let the board, the host boarded first, the guest followed, picked up the steps and gathered the foot, and even walked above. If you go up the east step, you will have the right foot, and if you go up the west step, you will have the left foot. The curtain is thin, the hall is not tending, and the jade is not tending. The hall is connected to the martial arts, and the hall is clothed. There is no flying in the room, and there is no horizontal humerus. Do not kneel, do not sit.
Whoever gives the dung of the elderly will be put on the basket and retreated. Its dust is not as good as that of the elderly, and it is self-directed to the kei. Serve as a bridge. Where do you want to go? What are the toes, please? Xi, Nanxiang and Beixiang, with the West as the top; Dongxiang and Xixiang, with the south as the top. If it is not a guest of food, it will be clothed and the banquet will be held. The host knelt down at the right seat, and the guest knelt down and stroked the seat. The guest is re-seated, and the host is stubborn. The guest practice the seat, but sit. The host doesn't ask, the guest doesn't lift first. Will be impromptu, do not hesitate. Pick your clothes with both hands to reach the ruler. You don't need to rip your clothes, you don't have to kick your feet. Mr. Shuce Qin Se is in front, sit and move, and do not cross. After sitting in vain, before eating and sitting. Sit safely, deacon. The elderly are not as good as them, so there is no need to say anything. Be upright, listen to it. Needless to say, no similarity. It will be the ancient times, and he will be called the first king.
Sitting at Mr., Mr. asked, and in the end he was right. If you ask for business, you will start from the benefit. The father calls without a promise, and the husband calls without a promise, but he rises. Sit in respect, and there is no room for it. Seeing that the same can not be afforded, the candle will rise, the food will rise, and the guests will rise. The candle is gone. Don't slap a dog before the honored guest. Let the food not spit.
Sitting in the gentleman, the gentleman is not stretched, writing a cane, looking at the sun and fleas, and the waiter is invited to come out. Sitting in the gentleman, the gentleman asks more decently, then he gets up and right. Sitting in the gentleman, if there is a complainant who says: "Shaojian, may there be a recovery." "Then he waited left and right. Don't listen, don't respond, don't look obscene, don't slack off. Swim without slumping, stand without lameness, sit without a basket, and sleep without lying down. There is no need for hair, no crown is inevitable, no labor is necessary, and there is no clothing for summer.
Sitting in the elderly, not going up to the hall, Xie Tuo does not dare to be a step. Just kneel and lift it, holding it to the side. The elders of the township are on their knees, kneeling and moving, and bowing down to accept them. Leave the sitting and standing, and do not go to the sitting. Those who stand apart do not come out of the middle.
Men and women do not sit together. Different flails, different towels, not personally taught. My sister-in-law didn't ask, and my mothers didn't rinse their clothes. The outer language does not come out of the court, and the inner language does not come out of the word. The woman is allowed to marry, and she is married; If there is no great reason, you will not enter the door. Sisters and sisters, the son is married and the opposite, the brother and the Buddha sit at the same table, and the Buddha eats with the same vessel. Father and son do not sit at the same table. Men and women are not well-known and not well-known. Non-currency, no payment and no kiss. Therefore, the sun and the moon are used to sue the king, the precepts are used to sue the ghosts and gods, and the wine and food are used to summon the township party and friends, so as to be kind to them. Take a wife and don't take the same surname. Therefore, if you buy a concubine and don't know her surname, you will be divided. The son of a widow is not a man of insight, but a friend.
He congratulated the person who took his wife, and said: "A certain son makes a certain son have a guest, and makes a certain person ashamed." ”
The poor do not take goods as a gift, and the old do not take strength as a gift.
The name is not based on the country, not the sun and the moon, not by hidden diseases, not by mountains and rivers.
Male and female are of different lengths. Men's twenty, the crown is a word. Before the father, the name of the son; In front of the king, the name of the minister. The woman is allowed to marry, and the words are written.
All the gifts of eating, the left and the right, the left of the eater, and the right of the man. Outside the broiling place, inside the sauce place, at the end of the green onion, and at the right place of the wine syrup. Those who repair with preserves, left and right. If the guest is demoted to the side of eating, the host will be the guest and then the guest will be seated. The master extended the guest sacrifice: "Sacrifice food, the sacrifice is advanced, the order of the funeral, all over the sacrifice." Three meals, the host extended the guest to eat, and then argued. The host did not argue, and the guest did not speak falsely.
Serve the elderly, and the host will give you food; If the owner does not give him, he will not worship and eat.
You can't eat enough, and you can't eat together. No rice, no rice, no run, no food, no bones, no fish, no dog bones. Don't get it, don't eat it. Rice is not to be eaten. No soup, no soup, no prickly teeth, no shame. The guest soup, the host can't resign. The guest is welcome, and the host is resigned. Wet meat tooth decision, dry meat tooth decision. Don't worry.
Pawn food, guests kneel in front of them, and those who are all over the meal are given to the guests, and the host resigns to the guests, and then the guests sit. Serve to the elderly, and the wine will rise, and worship and receive it in the honorable place. The elders resigned, and the young drank instead. The elders lifted, but they did not touch, and the young did not dare to drink. The elders give it, and the young don't dare to resign. The fruit is given before the king, and those who have a core have a core. The royal food is in the king, the king gives the surplus, and the irrigator does not write, and the rest is written.
The surplus is not sacrificed. The father does not sacrifice to the son, and the husband does not sacrifice to the wife. The royal is the same as the elderly, although he does not quit, he does not quit even sitting. Those who have vegetables use 𬂩, and those who don't have vegetables don't use 𬂩.
For the Son of Heaven to peel melons vice, the towel to 𫄨. For the monarch of the country, the scarf is silky. Tired for the doctor, the scholar, and the people.
Parents are sick, the crown is not stubborn, the line is not flying, the words are not lazy, the piano is not controlled, the meat does not change the taste, the drinking does not change the appearance, the laughter does not come, and the anger does not scold. Illness and recovery.
Those who are worried sit on the side seats, and those who mourn sit on the special seats.
When the water falls, no fish and turtles are offered, and those who donate birds brush their heads, and those who donate birds do not brush them. Those who offer chariots and horses are in charge of the sui, those who donate armor are in charge, and those who offer rods are in charge of the end. The captives of the people are on the right side. The donor of millet holds the right deed, and the donor of rice measures 𡔷. The giver eats the sauce. Those who dedicate the field house are in charge of the book.
Those who leave behind the bow, the bow is still tendoned, and the bow is still horned. Hold the flute in your right hand and hold it in your left hand. Humble and humble. If the host worships, the guest will return and worship. The host suffers from himself, from the left of the guest, and then receives it, and the township and the guest merge, and then accepts. The one who enters the sword is the left head, and the one who enters the sword is in front of it, and the one who enters the sword is behind it. Those who enter the spear halberd are upset.
Those who enter a few rods will brush it. Those who follow the horse and the sheep lead it to the right; The dog imitates the left lead. The one who holds the fowl is on the left, and the one who is decorated with a lamb goose is decorated with a goose. Those who receive pearls and jades will be picked, and those who receive bows and swords will be soaked. The one who drinks the jade lord is waved. Whoever asks a man with a bow and a sword, let him be commanded, as if he were tolerated.
Whoever is the king's messenger has been ordained, and the king's words do not stay at home. If the king's words come, the master will worship the humiliation of the king's words; When the messenger returns, he will be sent outside the door. If he makes a man in the king's place, he will obey it; and the messenger shall go down and be commanded.
Erudite and knowledgeable, good deeds and not slack, called a gentleman. The gentleman is not satisfied with the joy of others, and the loyalty of people is inexhaustible, and he is also full of friends.
Li said: "A gentleman hugs his grandson but not his son." "This is said that the grandson can be the corpse of the king's father, but the son cannot be the corpse of the father. For those who are corpses, when the doctors see it, they will go down. If you know that you are a corpse, you will be a corpse from below, and the corpse will be a corpse. Multiply by a few.
Those who are not happy will not hang.
The funeral ceremony is barren and invisible, and the sight and hearing are not decaying. The lifting is not by the steps, and the entry and exit are not appropriate. In the funeral ceremony, if there is a wound on the head, you will bathe, if you have a sore, you will drink and eat meat, and if you are sick, you will stop and recover. It is better to be unkind and unfilial than to be unkind. Fifty is not destroyed, sixty is not destroyed, seventy is only decay and numbness, drinking and eating meat, and being inside. Life and the future, death and the past. Those who know the living are hanging, and those who know the dead are injured. Knowing life but not death, hanging but not hurting. Knowing death but not life, wounding but not hanging. Mourning can be paid, regardless of the cost. Ask about the disease, not what you want. When you see a person's Fu Neng Pavilion, you don't ask where you are. The giver does not come to take it, and the giver does not ask what he wants. If the tomb is not on the ridge, the burial must be carried out. Don't smile at the end of the funeral. Whoever is in his place will disobey his position. Don't sing. Entering the imminent does not fly. Don't sigh when you eat. There is mourning in the neighborhood, and there is no harmony between them. There is a funeral in it, not a street song. The grave is not singing, and the crying day is not singing. There is no way to send a funeral, and a funeral is not a mess. When the funeral is about to be, there will be mourning, not smiling, and not sighing; Introduction, there is an inviolable color.
Therefore, the gentleman is cautious and does not lose his color to others. The monarch caresses the style, and the doctor goes down. The doctor strokes the style, and the sergeant is under it. If you can't be courteous, you can't punish a doctor. The prisoner is not on the king's side.
Troop vehicles are not styled. Wuche Suijing, German car knot. History is written and scholars are written. If there is water in front, it will carry the green. If there is dust in front of it, it will carry a singing kite. If there is a car in front of it, it will carry Feihong. Before there were judges, they carried tiger skins. If there is a beast in front of it, it will carry Pixiu. Okay, the front vermilion bird and then the Xuanwu, the left green dragon and the right white tiger. Swagger on top, and be anxious to suppress its anger. There is a degree of advance and retreat, there is a bureau on the left and right, and each has its own bureau.
The Father's Father, the Buddha and the Heavens. Brothers do not fight back. Travelling to different countries. There are many bases in the suburbs, and the humiliation of this doctor is also. The land is vast, and the wilderness is not cured, and this is also a humiliation.
The sacrifice is not lazy. The sacrificial clothes are burned, the sacrificial vessels are buried, the turtles are buried, and the dead animals are buried. Whoever sacrifices to the public will be thoroughly clothed in his own right.
The pawn cried. Etiquette, do not shy away from suspicion. The two names are not partial. If the parents are arrested, the king's parents will be ridiculed; If you don't catch your parents, you won't be afraid of your parents. The gentleman is selfless, and the doctor is all public. Poetry and books are not mined, the text is not mined, and the temple is not mined. Mrs. secret, although before the king, the minister does not secret, and the woman does not go out. Big work and little work. Ask about the forbidden when you enter the country, ask about the customs when you enter the country, and ask about the entrance when you get started.
Foreign affairs are rigid and internal affairs are soft.
Where the day of divination is said to be far away from a certain day, and within ten days it is said to be a certain day near. The funeral is far away, and the auspicious is near. He said: "For the sake of the day, the false Ertai turtle has a constant, and the fake Ertai Zheng has a constant." "There are only three divinations, and divination is not compelling. The turtle is divination, and the turtle is the basket. The diviner, the reason why the first holy king made the people believe in the time, worshiped ghosts and gods, and feared the law; Therefore, let the people decide on suspicion, and they will be determined. Therefore, it is said: "If you are suspicious, you will not be able to do it." If you do it every day, you will do it. ”
The king's chariot will drive, and the servant will make the decision, standing in front of the horse. has been driven, the servant exhibition is driving, the clothes are taken from the upper right, kneeling and riding, the strategy is divided, and the five steps are driven. When the king goes out of the car, the servant and the reins are conferred. Left and right, the car is driven. As for the gate, the king caressed the hand of the servant and ordered the car to go to the right. The door and ditch must be walked.
Every servant's gift will be bestowed. If the servant is demoted, he is receiving; Otherwise, no. If the servant is demoted, the servant's hand is touched; Otherwise, they will be detained. Passenger cars do not enter the gate, women do not ride, dogs and horses do not go to the church. Therefore, the gentleman's yellow hair, the next position, the country is not galloping, and the entry must be styled. The king's order is called, although it is a slut, the doctor will control it.
Those who do not worship, but worship for it. The auspicious car is open to the left, and the car of the king does not dare to open the left, and the left must be styled. the servant woman enters the left hand, and then the right hand; The monarch of the kingdom enters the right hand and then bows down with the left hand. The monarch does not ride strange cars.
The car is not extensive, and it is not arbitrary. Standing at the five peaks, looking at the horsetail, taking care of the hub. In the country, it is necessary to take care of the comet and not drive away. The dust does not derail. The monarch is under the Qi Niu, and the temple is a temple. The doctor is under the public gate, and the road horse is styled. Take the road horse, you will be spurred by the court, and you will not dare to give Sui, and you will be left to do it. Walking horses must be in the middle of the road. With the feet on the road, there is a punishment. Tooth road horse, there is punishment.